Dude I'm with you on this one, I think your system is flawed but you weren't out to scam anyone here. The dude said he was in no hurry, by all means he should be updated and following up with you to make sure your completing your half of the transaction. I don't know how nobody's seeing this from your view, like I said obviously your methods aren't the best/most efficient but you still had good intentions throughout the catastrophe. If dude(and apparently everyone else that feels like they're directly involved) wanted prompt and up to date transaction management, then they should've bought direct from a retailer. Instead of throwing a bitch fit because things weren't perfectly smooth, I'll say it again..no one came out at a loss here(except your phone) so why waste the argument
"Do or Do not, There is no Try"